Hanna's Little Note for Anyone Who Dealing With Broken Heart
One day, someone ask me for
something. An important thing that i have been dealing for almost a year too.
“Should i forget someone who means
alot to me? He was hurt me so badly then left me. I’ve been trying to forget
him several times, but i couldn’t.”
Dear, i’ve been in your shoes too.
Love is most unpredictable thing in
the world IMHO. You can’t control when, why, and who you’ll falling love. The
one thing that under your control is yourself.
Maybe you’ve been trying many
things to keep him for longer time, because you afraid to let him go. Or you
have been dealing for ignoring him because he makes your feel guilty and sad.
Dear i suggest you to stop.
Love is a mutual. It takes effort
for both of people to make it works.
But love need a sacrify and effort right?
True. But remember my word above.
No one will giving you a nobel for sacrify for other people (esp if he not the
right ones). The one you should give best effort is yourself.
If you feeling really sad now, then
cry. Cry as much as you can, till you tired and won’t to cry anymore.
If you feel hurt, going to beach
and scream as loud as you can. Let the waves bring your sadness away.
If it has enough, please stop your pity-party. It’s time to recovering
yourself.
You can never forget completely a
person who you love more than yourself. So stop trying it so hard, it wasting
your time and energy. Choose the one thing that you want to forget about him,
the one who makes you hurt the most.
Mostly pain that you got is
associated with everything about you’ve been put in the relationship,
expectations, or dreams which you have lost now. So you need to consider about
it anymore.
I have several things you need to
remember to make you feel better:
· · Don’t try so hard to forget him, time will heals your
pain, even it slowly
· ·
Forgive him, not for him, but to makes you don’t have
any revenge for him
· ·
Remember only good memories about him, but don’t make
it as a reason to draw you back to him
· · Accept your past, how hard you’ve been trying it can
never be changed
·
Live in present and focus on your future
· Never let anyone make you a second option, you deserves to be the first dear
· Focus on yourself, it isn’t selfish, it’s kind of gaining yourself back
· Don’t get to attached easily to people
· When you feel someone getting under your skin or make you overwhelm tell to your friend (or someone you trust). They may have seen them in other prespective (a better way though).
· Alone doesn’t mean lonely. Remember this! Make a happiness for yourself and yourself is the source of your happines (sorry if it sounds really selfish). Bcz if you put you happiness in a person, you’ll live in some expectations, and sometimes expectation couldn’t work as good as you can. It could kills you dear.
· Last but not least, thank to him for the things he had made and wish him happy. Thanks for all the pain and lesson, it makes you stronger. Wish him happy with others, because he already left a patience and strong girl here.
· Never let anyone make you a second option, you deserves to be the first dear
· Focus on yourself, it isn’t selfish, it’s kind of gaining yourself back
· Don’t get to attached easily to people
· When you feel someone getting under your skin or make you overwhelm tell to your friend (or someone you trust). They may have seen them in other prespective (a better way though).
· Alone doesn’t mean lonely. Remember this! Make a happiness for yourself and yourself is the source of your happines (sorry if it sounds really selfish). Bcz if you put you happiness in a person, you’ll live in some expectations, and sometimes expectation couldn’t work as good as you can. It could kills you dear.
· Last but not least, thank to him for the things he had made and wish him happy. Thanks for all the pain and lesson, it makes you stronger. Wish him happy with others, because he already left a patience and strong girl here.
That is all my word. Lil bit long but i hope it will make you through this pain. I haven’t completely healing yet, but it have been feel a much better than before.
Dear who’ve been broken heart now,
let me send you some virtual hugs. Hope we can fight this broken heart
together. ^^9
NB : There is someone special who
waiting you. Be patient, take care of yourself and be prepared for meeting him.
Hope you both will meet in right time and places ;)
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